ENM and Ethical Non-Monogamy Therapy in Oklahoma

You should not have to spend your therapy session explaining why your relationship structure is valid. We already know it is.

What We Work On

Whatever you actually came to therapy for. Jealousy and insecurity. Communication breakdowns. Navigating transitions in your relationship structure. Grief when a relationship ends. Anxiety. Depression. Trauma. Identity. The fact that you are in an ENM relationship does not change what you need from therapy. It just means you need a therapist who is not going to make your relationship the problem.

Who We Work With

Demetria Bonds, LMSW offers virtual therapy across all of Oklahoma. She works with adults navigating grief, relationship diversity, and the layered experiences of being in Black communities.

Demetria specializes in ethically non-monogamous relationships and brings an affirming, non-judgmental approach to that work on both a clinical and human level.

Ethical non-monogamy includes polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, swinging, and any other structure where everyone involved has consented to a non-exclusive arrangement. It is a legitimate relationship choice and not a problem to be fixed or a phase to be grown out of.

Finding a therapist who actually gets ENM without treating it like the problem can be genuinely difficult. We are not going to do that. Your relationship structure is not up for debate in our therapy rooms.

Virtual and In-Person

We offer virtual therapy across all of Oklahoma and in-person sessions in Oklahoma City. Virtual is a good option if you are not out about your relationship structure and want to keep your therapy private.

We Take Insurance

We are in network with most major insurance plans and we made it easy to check. Plug your insurance in directly on our website and find out what you are working with before you ever have to talk to anyone.